I attended on Tuesday a very interesting talk by Jay Marquis-Manicom about his thesis, “From the Red Pill to ‘White Genocide’”, in which the speaker discussed the links between the Alt-Right movement and the Red Pill. Through the talk, he explained how members of the Alt-Right, a far-right white supremacist movement, are often also involved in online male supremacy by taking part in websites such as The Red Pill. Many aspects in this talk stood out to me.
First, in his talk Jay told his audience about The Red Pill, a website where men share tricks on how to get women to sleep with them. He explained that on these websites, men consider women biologically inferior. This is, however, not unique to men who have “taken the Red Pill”. In fact, one of the most important components of stereotypical masculinity and fitting in the man box is to not behave “like a girl”, which includes not showing emotion or any sign of weakness. Showing weakness and vulnerability is unmanly because it is considered a feminine trait, which means that several men view women as being weak. This idea is supported by Christopher Kilmartin and Andrew P Smiler’s work, “Defining Men’s Studies”, which states that “males are encouraged from an early age to avoid behaviors, interests and personality traits that are considered ‘feminine’. Accordingly, men are directed to not show emotion, sometimes referred to as “emotional stoicism”, because emotion is often considered as a central and defining characteristic of femininity (Bem, 1974; Spence and Helmreich, 1978)” (Kilmartin & Smiler 5). Therefore, men who have taken the Red Pill consider women to be weaker for expressing emotion and use this superiority to validate their masculinity.
Another interesting aspect of the talk was the philosophical component that links male supremacists who have taken the Red Pill to Alt-righters. Indeed, these people believe, among other things, that masculinity is in crisis and that “men aren’t men anymore”. But what does it mean to be a man? For these people, it includes as mentioned earlier being superior to women. Jay even said that it would be the end of the world for them if women had equal rights. Furthermore, based on their past as pick-up artists and the goal of websites such as “The Red Pill”, it is safe to assume that being a man, for these people, has got to do with sleeping with many women, or, as referred to on page 5 of Christopher Kilmartin and Andrew P Smiler’s work “Defining Men’s Studies”, “sexual ‘conquest’”. By sleeping with many women, men achieve this “sexual ‘conquest’” and obey to what society considers to be masculine. In fact, Kilmartin and Smiler even suggest, in that same work, that “The combination of Antifemininity and Status and Achievement support the notion that men are inherently superior to women, and thus can be seen as justifications for sexism”(Kilmartin & Smiler 5), which links this paragraph to the previous one: these men believe that women are inferior to them, meaning they are weaker and can be manipulated easily to have sex with men, giving men more sexual conquest and making them more manly.
Lastly, another moment that stood out to me was when the speaker was talking about the demographics of the alt-right movement. He stated that it is dominated by millennial men, which made me think about what it is in women that doesn’t drive them towards so much violence. This can be explained by women’s stronger ability to communicate their feelings, which leads them to resort less to drastic measures and violence. As stated on page 166 of “No Man Is an Island: Men in Relationships” by Kilmartin and Smiler, masculinity “directs men to avoid sharing feelings. Even when they do, their upbringing shortchanges them”, meaning their relationships are less intimate. The same work reported, also on page 166, that men who do have intimate relationships (which goes against what masculinity dictates) report less violence. This goes to show that these men, who want to be viewed as strong, virile and enlightened will clearly not communicate emotion and have violent tendencies such as the alt-right movement. To conclude, understanding masculinity is important if we want to understand the roots of movements such as the Red Pill and the Alt Right. As Jay Marquis-Manicom said himself, understanding the movement is the only way to dismantle it.


