Final Blog: Exploring Masculinity – Hockey Arena? Or a Battlefield?

A sport that allows fighting? Does that even exist? Until recently, I have come to know a very intriguing sport that have been played for so long now which actually let players fight in the rink! Bloodshed, pain and tears have been around Hockey’s history and part if its tradition. It is the only professional sports that allows such vulgar, yet very “manly” ways of handling matters. How does NHL professional and amateur players feels about this violent rule? What if they don’t want to fight? Do they have any choices? How do they handle such situation?

As I have searched through the web for more information about the violence in hockey, the “CODE” came by frequently. What was the CODE? Similar to the “manbox” in the 4th episode: Man Enough, they are abide to a long list of rules imposed to them as players. In order to be part of the team, they are required to be tough and ruthless. In addition to the manbox, added is the CODE. It is just like any hegemonic explanation of what is a man all about, the CODE is about solidarity, pride, and respect to fellow players. Like the manbox, men have standards and expectations to meet. A very good example is Dun, despite not wanting to fight, he had no choices, but to do so. Not only that he has to protect the name of his team according to the CODE, but he really needed to defend for himself to, if he did not want to be beaten up to death. He was well respected by his team, not for his dominance on the rink, but because of how gentle and affectionate he was, toward his team. This might be his “flaw”, being a man, is to be tough and to show no emotions in front of others, as it shows your vulnerability (Kimmel, p. 163). He was forced to put on a mask, so he will be accepted by surrounding, because what lies beyond the mask, are his attitude, feelings, and the true him, that he was forced to conceal to be accepted. Why are they so violent, though? As I have done my readings related to masculinity, Violence is the “manliest” way of showing dominance. According to the 4 themes of Brennon’s masculinity, Hockey players have the traits of all 4 categories. First of all, They are not allowed to “sissy”. In other words, anything is acceptable, just do not be a girl. Second, As they cannot show anything related to femininity, which is the base of the very definition of the singular masculinity, they show their emotions and dominance by being aggressive. Being a player in NHL gives such a prestige, as they are considered very successful to have gone so far in this professional sport. They are admired by so many and it is an activity where seeing professional women are hardly seen. Can I say that hockey is indeed a sexist sport? Until recently that is. Professional Women’s Hockey stepped up their game and have been supported by a lot of organisations, in 2019. Finally, they also have to be strong and independent, especially if the get in to fights. All 4 of this themes are very well related to how Brennon categorized masculinity.

We should stop supporting violence in hockey. Families and friends should be rejoicing of such an amazing career for the players, yet this hidden part of our national sports have not been heard.

How does the enforcers feel about this brutality that they consider sportsmanship? As we are not all raised in the same manner and of the same surrounding, our standards and attitude of what is tolerable violence differ as well. Some enforcers, according to The Fifth Estate – CBC – The Code, said that it is what made them joined hockey. It is what some players and even viewers find exciting and not the actual match itself. They very much like it and it should be something all hockey players know about. This implies that all players knew that this level of violence exists in the rink, yet they go for it. Some are actually fearing it, but they have no choice, because it is the sport, the career that fills them up. Knowing the brutality in game, they have decided to continue with it, because of their love for hockey. Some believes that this is a way to show dominance in the rink. To be feared and to be the number one, is to be the strongest in fights and not in game. To show you guys how much men crave prestige and power over those who are weaker than them. They would go that far for their own purposes. In parents point of view, it is agonizing to see their children getting beat up, yet they cannot do anything, because it is a set rule. Some veteran players have sons that are aspiring NHL players and they know what they will have to go through. Some said that they are worried, but they know what they are entering. As for the managers and the association, do they really care about their players? To a certain extent, yes they do, but they seem to care more about the amount of money earned. The majority of the viewers are actually supporting such violence on the rink and have come to support hockey for this sole reason. By abolishing the fights in the rink, they predict a huge loss in the income, therefore they only set up rules to protect the players from very vital damages; such as not allowing players to take off their helmets during fights. What is more worrisome about the violence in hockey is the fact that hockey is not hockey without the violence that comes along it.

โ€œItโ€™s not hockey ya know, itโ€™s figure skating on ice you know.โ€

A player

As some believes that hockey without violence is figure skating, a lot of the children took up from this and results violence even between young hockey players. A child’s mentality comes from what they see. As grown ups, professional hockey players should not set such a vulgar and brutal example for children. Especially those who are very well respected in the rink. The more recognition the man has, the more people would follow his lead. What would happen if the most honorable and respected hockey player on NHL be the type of person who beats up his nemesis to show his dominance? Guessed it right. Children who have seen such, would think that beating up other people would give him such honor. Thus, more and more people becomes violent. Parenting does not just come from the parents, everything that surrounds the child is what shapes him, his future, and his knowledge of what is right. Psychologically speaking, a child who’s exposed in a very violent household and addition to that, he is also a passionate hockey player, will surely be very aggressive toward his foes as he was continuously seeing violence not only in the rink, but also at home.

To conclude, the violence in hockey should not be supported for no matter what reason. Supporters of such scheme might find it very fun, as they are still youthful, but as they grow old and realize the impact of the violence to our future, which are the children, they might think twice of doing so. Researching about the violence in hockey gave me an opportunity to see the other side of it. When I arrived in Canada, never have I ever thought that this is an actual thing, until recently. I hope that I have elaborated my ideas right to convince you, the readers, that violence is not always the key to solve problems. Maybe speaking your mind off would solve it.