“Institutions accomplish the creation of gender difference and the reproduction of the gender order through several gendered process.”
Michael Kimmmel
In this given statement, I believe that Michael Kimmel wanted to emphasis the fact that institutions plays a big role in “gender making”. Whether it is in a workplace, home, mall or any kind of of places where a group of person gathers, an act of a certain “masculine/manly” ways are expected from men. If they were to fail to fit in those manly criteria, they are either judged, and/or criticized by the public who follows the socially constructed view of masculinities. Men and women are expected to follow there respective roles in a workplace. Men are more on the heavy and handy jobs, where as the women are more on the organization. There is a sort of a discrimination towards them if they are found doing job that are not designated for there gender. For example, a man working as a cabin crew, commonly known as flight attendants. Until recently, women are mostly associated to do this and not men. If you are to work in this domain, you are regarded as gay. Why? It is because this job requires you to take care of the passengers and be a server/nurse on board. Given the requirement to take care, where this act is considered very feminine, you will rarely see men doing this sort of a career. A barrier is put in place by the social norms that requires you to follow a certain act of your sex. In correlation to the 4th episode of “Man Enough?”, it was mentioned during there discussion that they are obligated to fit in the safe box or else they will be judged and criticized.
By the term “masculinities”, the author meant all the definitions of what makes a man, a man. All the definitions that the society made up to put a certain standard of what is a man. He prefers using the term masculinity rather than male, because male is a term associated with biological sex and masculinity is a gender, what it meant to be a man on the social and cultural context and how you are molded to act the way you are. To fully understand what are masculinities, you need to know its meaning in an anthropological, historical, sociological and psychological dimensions. Just like they discussed in episode 4 of “man enough?”, in a historical dimension, since the ancient times, men are taught to be the predator hunting preys, where in this context meant the women. They do not respect women as equal since then and this are why the hierarchy is lead by men. The experiences of women that will never occur if you are a man such as walking alone at night and randomly grabbed off to be raped is an example of how men doesn’t see females as humans, but rather objects or preys.
In conclusion, I believe that vile acts doesn’t define masculinity, the way the society look at men are based on the acts of the minority, because the majority certainly do not stand out.