Blog#3 Status and Achievement

The definition of status and achievement is men are known to be successful in the work that they do. Men who have power get more recognition. As for example of this definition is Gordon Ramsay.

He is known to be a very successful chef at his professional work. He is a extreme perfectionist at his work. He learns very fast from his few mistakes and his successes. He is very dominant. He speaks aggressively. He is screaming all the time. He is impatient. Like the name of his show, working with him is “HELL”. He controls everything. He is never satisfied with anything.  He swears all the time. He humiliates at the people of his show if something is not done the way he wants it to be. If you look at his videos on Youtube about his show “hell’s kitchen”, the way he is getting pissed off at people is so annoying and angry to see because they didn’t cook the food they way he wanted.  He has a lot of proudness and treat other people like trash just because he’s a male cooker and he is receiving high statues and achievements in his life. There are many female cookers too but there are not as popular has Gordon Ramsay is because the society considers that it is a female’s job to cook.  

Blog #2: The Mask You Live In

This documentary is very interesting. As a boy, I did experience many of these things. You also realize it, but I have never explained it from the perspective of science and sociology, and when I see various Statistics, this is a shock to me.

All the people in the video have almost the same experience, and their mouth describes the various bad experiences I encountered in my childhood, which made me feel sad and sympathetic, and no one at the time could help them, and could only hide themselves in others The masks made by myself are secretive, and this just shows that violent behavior and perverted extreme behavior do not suddenly occur. It was a terrible thing in his childhood. No one can help him resolve all kinds of extreme emotions in his heart, and slowly spawned and evolved into violent behavior. In childhood, whether in school or at home, negative emotions Both are fatal, which can lead minors whose values ​​are not completely certain to the extreme.

Finally, in Carlos Gomez’s book, what attracted me most was his inability to determine his sexual orientation. This was painful. He was confused and tried different solutions. He is a man in the eyes of others, and men should do what men do. He is shaped as a man. No one can solve this confusion and loss for him. This is frustrating.