Blog 3: Inexpression and independence



The character chosen who represents the inexpression and the independence is Will, who played in the movie good will hunting. Throughout the movie, we see that Will uses strength to feel more in control and probably to prove that he was a “real guy” in front of his friends. He got into a fight with a guy only because the man had made fun of him in kindergarten, which was a long time ago. Also, Will is a inexpressive man, until he started seeing a psychologist. He has a rough childhood and it has impacted him a lot. But he never talked about it with his friends or even his girlfriend, and he was carrying it alone. Will was trying to prove to everyone that he was in control of his life and that he didn’t need anybody’s helps. For example, when a professor tried to help him by making him see a psychologist, he was arguing with him telling him that he didn’t need anybody’s help and that he was fine like this. More, we can say that he is an independent man. Will is a young man who grew as an orphan, and he was able to leave his girlfriend without giving her any news for days. Further, when she told him that she loved him, he left saying that he didn’t love her.
As expressed in the text, Will is a really good example of an inexpression and independent man. He makes it appear like everything is fine and that he doesn’t need help, because he doesn’t want to show his emotion, and he wants to solve his problems by himself, even if he can’t handle them. He uses his strength to scare others, and he is a really independent guy who fears attachment.
 

Blog 3: Independence and Inexpressiveness

In our society, if a guy is independent and inexpressive he is stereotyped as “a real man”, as said in the textbook “Defining men’s studies”. In my opinion, James Bond is portrayed as independent because of the fact that he doesn’t live by any rules, he does what he wants when he wants and does everything on his own. Independence is also a big image that men give off to show they’re manly because being independent shows you could do things on your own and you don’t need rely on anyone, you just do your own thing and listen to no one but yourself.

He is also portrayed as inexpressive because of his image he gives off. He is always serious and never shows any emotion; more specifically, he never shows he’s sad, or that he wants affection, and most importantly, he never shows he’s scared. Inexpressiveness is a very big and important image that men give off to show they’re real men, because when you’re inexpressive you don’t show your emotions, and that’s important to men as mentioned in the textbook.

Blog 3: Status & Achievement

In many eyes, a successful man is one who plays sports, someone who’s accomplished in his work, and one who has a successful sexual “conquest”. Although, does society truly believe that this definition solely describes every successful man?

James Charles, make up artist and first ever Coverboy, became an internet sensation at the age of 17, which wasn’t very easy or “fun”, as most people may have thought. This famous youtuber struggled mostly in this traditionally female-dominated industry at the beginning of his career, as there still aren’t that many men in cosmetic corporations. James came out as gay when he was 12 years old, and luckily for him, he has a supportive family who’s accepting and wants to help guide him through his career. He has done makeup for several celebrities like Kim Kardashian and Kylie Jenner.

This successful man didn’t enjoy playing sports in high school or have many “girlfriends”. He received a lot of negative reinforcement online regarding his homosexuality and doesn’t have many manly characteristics based on what society defines a man. Despite not being categorized as a man with a good status achievement based on the definition provided, he has still accomplished so much through his YouTube channel and business.

Blog 3: Status and Achievement

As stated on page five of Defining Men’s Studies, achievement and status is defined as; successful men who have achieved success through the fields of work, sports, and sexual conquest. The one man who is the most obvious in accomplishing this definition is Hugh Hefner.

Hugh Hefner in the filed of sports has successfully published many articles where women posed for athletes. You may of seen Hugh on television for being admired for his success and for his sexy conquests. He was the founder and co-editor of the playboy magazine. He was also known for his playboy mansion where he has invited several celebrities and wealthy people to party and enjoy women. At his death it was publicly understood that he was worth around $50 million. Later, the market research firm Wealth-X released that Hugh Hefner was worth at least $110 million, with roughly $45 million in liquid assets. many men looked up to Hugh. Hugh was seen as The Man. Based on the definition of someone who has status and achievement,

Hugh Hefner’s accomplishments would suggest that he has achieved this. Some examples of his success that categorizes him as a man with status and achievement are is work, making him millions and being praised with sexy women. He was very much involved in the celebrity and athletic community and will never be forgotten.

By: Daniel Bohbot & Alexandra Morgan Arseneau

Blog #3: Defining Men’s Studies

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Our definition for this assignment is adventurousness and aggressiveness. I have chose Howie Mandel as a counter example for this definition.

In the definition it describes masculinity to have characteristics of taking physical risks and acting out violently. I thought Howie Mandel was a good counter example because he does not have a violent history and is very open and accepting. When people think of a masculine man, they often think of a “tough” man who often does not show many emotions that might make him appear “soft” or “weak” in the eyes of other people. Luckily, it is starting to change but only because people like Howie Mandel (and many other men) who have started speaking up about mental health. He has recently started talking about his Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, OCD. This is something that is very important because it starts to break down the stereotype and expectations that a “masculine” man cannot show “weakness”. I find that Howie Mandel did take a risk but it was very different then the type of risk implied. Talking about his mental health was a risk he took because the stigma around masculinity and showing emotions is very strongly intertwined and for someone as popular as him to come out and say that showing emotions and dealing with mental illness does not make you weak or any lesser of a man it starts to break down that stigma. In the definition of Adventurousness and Aggressiveness to take physical risks. This is something Howie Mandel talks about and said : “We take care of our dental health, we don’t take care of our mental health.” and goes on to speak about how counselling should be in the picture just as much as going to the dentist and the doctors.